For the Ladies: Bitter Truth!!

Dear Readers

    I put this together to help the ladies who are having a bad time handling or dealing with their relationships, of cause we all know that guys are unbelievable when it comes to RELATIONSHIP!!!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is Don't stay because you think "it will get better"You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything if he doesn't care. He will surely use it against you later.You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...Even if he has more education or a better career. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. You should not be the one doing all the bending...Compromise is two way thing. You need time to heal between relationships...There is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...Look for someone Complimentary...not Supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

You see the keywords above?

EVER, ALLOW, COMPLETE and WHOLE!!

Keep them in mind ladies, we are humans just like men, because God Created us in his own image so we are the image of God.... Never allow a man to make u feel less of a person. This is the 21st Century. WHAT A MAN CAN DO A WOMAN CAN DO BETTER!!!