Wednesday 2 January 2013

I Want to Save My Marriage: Top Causes of Divorce

Your marriage is within jeopardy therefore you want to do all you are able to conserve your marriage. In order to know how your relationship has come to this point, we should review the way you got here originally. In an effort to help you keep your marriage, we shall start looking at the most common causes of divorce.

Often times throughout marriage, our priorities change. A marriage contains two distinct individuals with their unique list of values. While at the start these values were integral in bringing you together, values and priorities change given certain conditions. For example, you've had your first child.

Priority will now be shifted to raising your baby and providing care and guidance for around the next eighteen years. All too often, the change in priorities is realized by one parent and not the other. Your life may be altered by the birth of your child. An unparalleled change in priorities often causes anger and resentment between the two adults. Difference of opinion in child rearing or an uneven sharing within the duties involved is one of the major reasons for divorce.

Boredom is yet another factor contributing to divorce. Remember when all you experienced together was new and exciting? So what happened? Couples become more comfortable with each other, busy with routine and eventually are inclined to complacency. Just as you will place down a book you find boring, a lot of couples today get the only recourse for marital boredom is divorce, or worse infidelity. That leads us to just one more reason couples choose divorce over remedy.
Infidelity is not just a violation of your own marriage vows, but a violation of trust and what holds the marriage as sacred, setting it apart from other relationships. All too often, if infidelity has happened in your marriage, no matter how many times you plea “I want to save my marriage”, there just is no turning back. Trust in a relationship is tantamount. Once that trust is broken, many see no resolution. Intimacy within your relationship becomes spattered with doubt and mistrust. Often, once infidelity has occurred, it does'not matter how hard you try to forgive and forget, it does not happen. Infidelity is really the # 1 reason for divorce. I’m certain that comes as no big surprise!

Another leading reason behind divorce and this is probably the most founded reason, is abuse. Whether physical, emotional or psychological, abuse is abuse. If your calls are being monitored, your laptop or computer history being checked, designed to feel ugly or inadequate, told how to dress or wear your hair, these are generally all forms of abuse. Aside from the more obvious, physical violation in anyway, shape or form, abuse occurs more often than you may be aware.
We  have merely scratched the surface revealing the most notable reasons behind divorce. Marriage is definitely an agreement by which both of you decided to share life. It is hard work for the simple idea that you are two separate individuals conjoining to create a life together. In case your relationship becomes broken or you have lost sight in the common goal, tell yourself, “I want to save my marriage” and do whatever needs doing to realize any of these factors impinging on your own union and do what must be done. Please don’t give up til you have recognized the infiltrators of your marriage. Love is precious. It is in your power to keep it alive and thriving!

6 comments:

  1. Mr gibson
    My Name is Mr Gibson .I will love to share my
    testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never
    thought i will have my girlfriend back and she
    means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry
    to left me 4 weeks to our weeding for another
    man..,When i called her she never picked my
    calls,She deleted me on her Face book and she
    changed her Face book status from married to
    Single...when i went to her place of work she told
    her boss she never want to see me..i lost my job
    as a result of this cos i cant get myself
    anymore,my life was upside down and everything
    did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could
    do to have her back to all did not work out until i
    met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some
    business have been developing some years back..I
    told him my problem and all have passed through
    in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told
    me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the
    first place.but he swore he will help me out and he
    told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and
    also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed
    when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a
    spell for me and i will see the results in the next
    couple of days..then i travel back to US the
    following day and i called him when i got home and
    he said he's busy casting those spells and he has
    bought all the materials needed for the spells,he
    said am gonna see positive results in the next 2
    days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at
    exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all
    she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's
    doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional
    and she promised not to do that again.it was like
    am dreaming when i heard that from her and when
    we ended the call,i called the man and told him my
    wife called and he said i haven't seen anything
    yet... he said i will also get my job back in 2 days
    time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my
    place of work that i should resume working on
    Monday and they gonna compensate me for the
    time limit have spent at home without working..My
    life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and
    we are happily married now with kids and i have
    my job back too,This man is really powerful..if we
    have up to 20 people like him in the world,the
    world would have been a better place..he has also
    helped many of my friends to solve many problems
    and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the
    forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the
    man for help.you can mail him on this e-mail;
    Templesolutions@yahoo.com i cant give out
    his number cos he told me he don't want to be
    disturbed by many people across the world..he said
    his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails
    asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck his
    Email: templesolutions@yahoo.com

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  2. Mr gibson
    My Name is Mr Gibson .I will love to share my
    testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never
    thought i will have my girlfriend back and she
    means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry
    to left me 4 weeks to our weeding for another
    man..,When i called her she never picked my
    calls,She deleted me on her Face book and she
    changed her Face book status from married to
    Single...when i went to her place of work she told
    her boss she never want to see me..i lost my job
    as a result of this cos i cant get myself
    anymore,my life was upside down and everything
    did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could
    do to have her back to all did not work out until i
    met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some
    business have been developing some years back..I
    told him my problem and all have passed through
    in getting her back and how i lost my job...he told
    me he gonna help me...i don't believe that in the
    first place.but he swore he will help me out and he
    told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and
    also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed
    when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a
    spell for me and i will see the results in the next
    couple of days..then i travel back to US the
    following day and i called him when i got home and
    he said he's busy casting those spells and he has
    bought all the materials needed for the spells,he
    said am gonna see positive results in the next 2
    days that is Thursday...My girlfriend called me at
    exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all
    she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's
    doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional
    and she promised not to do that again.it was like
    am dreaming when i heard that from her and when
    we ended the call,i called the man and told him my
    wife called and he said i haven't seen anything
    yet... he said i will also get my job back in 2 days
    time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my
    place of work that i should resume working on
    Monday and they gonna compensate me for the
    time limit have spent at home without working..My
    life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and
    we are happily married now with kids and i have
    my job back too,This man is really powerful..if we
    have up to 20 people like him in the world,the
    world would have been a better place..he has also
    helped many of my friends to solve many problems
    and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the
    forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the
    man for help.you can mail him on this e-mail;
    Templesolutions@yahoo.com i cant give out
    his number cos he told me he don't want to be
    disturbed by many people across the world..he said
    his email is okay and he' will replied to any emails
    asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck his
    Email: templesolutions@yahoo.com

    ReplyDelete
  3. Greetings to the world my name is Dora from Spain, I want to testify about the good work of Dr. Smith, which helped me in achieving what i thought I never get again. I had a three-years relationship with a man and I had a child for him, I thought he loved me more than anything in the world after a while I noticed some changes in him, things that i do not realize started to happen, so I knew something was wrong I tried to please him in several ways but still no results. I soon realized that he was seeing another girl who tried to make him understand that she loves Him better. One day I read a witness of a similar case, a testimony of a person who Dr smith helped to solve the same problem, but I thought I was not convinced by my friend, so I contacted him and and we proceeded with my spell work in three days once he was through with it all was well. My lover contacted me and he was begging seriously because he wants me back, thank God now that we are still together and happy married. Dr smith informed me that he Also treat other problems like
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  4. BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE BACK AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2 YEARS WITH MY 7 YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM WEST AFRICA UNTIL I SAW A POST ABOUT MAMA ANITA SPELL AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HER MY LAST TRAIL.SHE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND $380 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS, I HAVE PAID OVER $3000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HER A TRY SO I CALLED HER AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE $380 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS SHE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE MY WIFE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PMTHAT DAY I SAW MY WIFE ON LINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFF-LINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ON LINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL MAMA ANITA THE NEXT DAY THANKING HER FOR WHAT SHE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HER AND THANK HER AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT MY WIFE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A TRUE LOVE SPELL THEN CONTACT MAMA ANITA (mama.anitaspellcraft@hotmail.com) website http://kelvinlargemyself.wix.com/anita

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  5. my name is laki and my testimony goes like this because i never think i will ever think i will have Roland back, i know i cheat on him and he said he never want to see me again and i beg for two month and he did not listen to me so decided to consult the internet for help where i found UZOYA good testimony and i consulted him and i told him all the problem and he assure me not to worry and i did all he ask me to do and in three days Roland come knocking and said let come back together again, do not blame me after reading my story because i love Roland. try UZOYA via driraborspellcaster@gmail.com OR call him on +13019098775

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